Welcome screamifyouwanttogofaster - what a brilliant user name! Even if you just come in here to let off steam then PowerSwitch will be doing some good. But I can assure you that if you want to, you can learn an awful lot from the good people in here.
Hey panickymum - sounds like a pretty good username too. Welcome on-board. I believe the mods can change your user name if you want......
My wife was originally a "stick her head in the sand" as she had other things to worry about. But she has come around a lot now and is starting to take it all on-board....
Hello & welcome screamifyouwanttogofaster. (I may just call you Scream from now on tho, or SIYWTGF, whichever you find least offensive ) I agree with you, the children are a driving force for me. Even if I wanted to bury my head in the sand, I wouldn't feel as tho' I could.
Hey this post is great - it's coaxed 2 new people to join up & talk to us.
snow hope wrote:Welcome screamifyouwanttogofaster - what a brilliant user name! Even if you just come in here to let off steam then PowerSwitch will be doing some good. But I can assure you that if you want to, you can learn an awful lot from the good people in here.
Thanks for the welcome . I'm sure I'll find this place a useful resource. I like to be informed and I've never been one to trust my safety/ health etc to "them out there", I'm sure there are lots of likeminded people here, or we wouldn't be here would we!
Have you 2 newbies seen the post about the national meet up in August at Kenneal's? It's more the merrier I believe, check out the post at the top of this forum.
Eternal Sunshine wrote:Hello & welcome screamifyouwanttogofaster. (I may just call you Scream from now on tho, or SIYWTGF, whichever you find least offensive ) I agree with you, the children are a driving force for me. Even if I wanted to bury my head in the sand, I wouldn't feel as tho' I could.
Hey this post is great - it's coaxed 2 new people to join up & talk to us.
Thanks . And Scream is fine. Though it's making me think of Monsters Inc... which funnily enough is rather appropriate is it not?
SunnyJim wrote:I think my wife is somewhere between the top two. She undestands PO, but I think she's putting off really thinking about what it might mean and the timescales involved. With anything in life it's a trade off. We have small kids, so it's hard on her as I am holding down a full time job AND doing peak prep stuff. We're stretched for time, and it means its harder work for her, which tires her out and makes her miserable sometimes. We've just had a holiday thought which has done us the world of good.
All in all, I've very lucky to have a wife that understands PO, and supports me in the things we are doing. It's hard to spend money on fencing and sheds etc when eveyone else round here seems to be eating out and driving 2 year old cars. She buys her clothes at the charity shop, and economises where ever she can. Without her efforts and support we'd be nowhere near as far down the road as we are. We effectively live like peasants at the moment to make money avaliable for PO preps. If she wasn't 'on board' that wouldn't really be possible.
We have three kids, 16, 13 and 11. They are quite an assortment; oldest has Downs Syndrome, ADD, dysfluency and had two years of leukaemia treatment, middle is normal, and youngest has ADD and dysfluency.
Mitch you are right, eventually I will be better off. Life has been very lonely for a very long time.
Thanks for the support and advice and just for being here everyone.