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I could bring your attention to this response to a question:
Wife refuses sex:
Answer:
If one finds oneself in a marriage where one’s wife is constantly disobedient to his lawful commands, Islam guides that before one contemplates separation through the lawful but detested option of divorce, one should try doing the following…..perchance the wife would fear Allah and amend her conduct and thus save the marriage:
Admonish the wife: Find a suitable opportunity, and with patience and above all wisdom, speak to one’s wife politely but firmly and admonish them to fear Allah and fulfill the rights that are due from a wife to a husband in marriage. If after one’s very best efforts, the wife still refuses to obey the lawful commands of her husband; then one has the option to take the next step before contemplating divorce….
Refuse to share the bed (conjugate or have sexual intercourse) with one’s wife for a period of time which will clearly signify to any intelligent and God-fearing wife the displeasure her conduct and her constant disobedience is causing her husband in marriage. If even after this step, the wife refuses to comply, Islam has given the option to the husband to lightly beat her to signify to his wife his severe displeasure of her constant disobedience. One should fear Allah their Lord and exercise this option as an absolute last resort if he sincerely believes that this light beating of disapproval will help save the marriage.
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