jonny2mad wrote:Ludwig wrote:jonny2mad wrote:
I used to steal food off my little nephew every time he ate and now he eats like a fellow who thinks someones going to steal his food he eats fast and covers his plate and is alert , hes 22 and six foot 7, but more than that hes mentally the sort of person who would do well in a gulag fighting for the last cheese sandwich .
Presumably he also hates your guts and would do anything to get his own back if the opportunity arose.
its the sort of thing we do in my family
Hm. Well. Not in mine or in most families I know. I guess it's hard to escape one's upbringing.
Actually my nephews very fond of me he knew why I was doing it , my father used to do similar things with me as a child and brought me and my sister up with the same attitudes I thought the world of him .
If you have learned something in your life you try to pass on those lessons, thats not cruelty, cruelty is where you bring up a child and don't teach him things that will keep him alive
When you was a baby did you say to your dad "dad can you raise me like a spartan, can you raise me to be a violent thug"? Obviously not, therefore your father took it upon himself to, i presume anyway, beat you maybe? Or get you to fight all the time, get you used to pain etc (im just guessing here, correct me if im wrong). Now if he did do any of the above, then to me thats cruelty.
My mates dad use to beat his kids black and blue all the time, which is pretty cruel. Now if he would of said "im toughening them up, getting them used to the world so they have a better chance of staying alive" would that make it ok? Would that mean he wasnt being cruel? Of course not, he would still be a cruel bully, except if he said that he would be a cruel bully with a lame and cowardry excuse.
Also there are plenty of other non-violent ways you can teach children how to stay alive.
I asked what sort of quality's would a spartan upbringing give you , I would think incredible quality's of endurance, you would likely give far more effort, given equal numbers Spartans generally won even out numbered they generally won .
Seriously we live in a tottally different time, get over the spartans, if they were that brilliant they would still be around, go watch 300 or something.
One more question, probably a stupid one, but you got any kids?